Nothing
happens in the world without some intention behind it.
Hypnotherapists often presuppose this concept in an effort to uncover
the source of many client conflicts and difficulties. To figure
out the reason behind the unwanted habit, or the cause of a particular
limitation. Most of us have learned enough about the power of
intention to realize that our inner objectives will insist upon
finding expression in the world.
And when we chose our professional paths, we were guided by a deep
intention as well. As an adolescent, I set my sights on the priesthood
inspired by a self-declared, youthful and naively exalted mission to
"lessen human suffering and bring some peace to those in
distress"
I ambled into hypnosis by way of a series of "fortuitous
accidents". My evolving practice of trancework has been the
result of an unfolding path that led me through monasticism and
meditation, guided imagery processes, spiritual practices and past
life regressions to NLP and hypnotherapy. Yet through all of these
changes, the original mission remained essentially the same. Still
aimed at helping people overcome their difficulties, my work began to
reflect a greater interest in expanding self-awareness for those in my
care.
When I was first trained in hypnosis some twenty five years ago, it
seemed that the "bread and butter" for most hypnotherapists
was weight loss and smoking cessation. I believe that this may
still be the case for many of us. But as time went on, and as
the public perception of hypnosis grew away from the limiting
misconceptions of the past, hypnotherapists were called upon for
assistance with a variety of unwanted habits and phobias, resolution
of traumas, family troubles and more. I had set my sights on
"human suffering" and I found it all around me.
So I was delightfully surprised one day when a client came to see me
who didn't seem to have a problem at all. A client who didn't
need "fixing"! All was going well for this artistic
young man (a successful screen writer) who wanted to use hypnosis to
stimulate his creativity. And then another client came to me who
wanted to explore her dreams. And one who wanted guidance to
find her purpose.
I had become so accustomed to doing remedial work with clients that it
was a major paradigm shift for me to consider that troubles weren't a
requirement of the process. This realization opened up a new and
rewarding dimension to my practice to that been a source of
professional enthusiasm and satisfaction ever since.
In practice, hypnotherapists are often called upon to uncover a
client's resources and apply them in ways that can be used to achieve
the goals of therapy. The purpose is to resolve some difficulty.
This is remedial therapy.
As we let go of the assumption that our clients are broken and in need
of repair, we can begin to utilize our clients' resources differently.
Generative therapy involves processes that "generate" new
options and understandings. Once initiated, these understandings
seem to take on a life of their own and unfold through time in
accordance with the inner needs and intentions of the individual.
Unlike the old understanding of hypnosis as a means of planting
suggestions in the unconscious mind and programming it to conform to a
consciously chosen directive, generative hypnosis invites the
unconscious to come forward and express itself in the world. It
utilizes the wisdom of the unconscious to make better choices than we
can make consciously, and it invites further exploration and
self-discovery.
The human potential movement has been maturing steadily since the
1960s when young people started to turn to non-traditional spiritual
paths, meditative options, transformational training programs and
other self-help and self-development choices. It has called us
to take deliberate and conscious control over the direction of our own
evolution. And to do so requires skills and tools.
The invitation to self knowledge and self unfoldment can be answered
by a variety of techniques for which hypnotherapists are especially
well equipped. Rather than the mistaken stereotypical notion of
hypnosis as the imposition of the hypnotist will on a subject, we have
the opportunity to use our expertise in ways that are ultimately
respectful of the client. We create the context for change and
growth and trust the nature of the client's unconscious mind to use
that context appropriately.
In the descriptions to this work offered by NLP developer and
researcher Robert Dilts, generative therapy involves finding some
quality that already exists within the individual and enhancing it,
making more of it, or finding more uses for it. And the real
difference between one practitioner and another is how we go about
finding those qualities.
Before I studied hypnosis, my own experience with altered states of
consciousness began with meditation and I still appreciate the value
that sitting daily in silence, openness and expectation offers me.
Consequently I often find it worthwhile to teach my clients how to
meditate. As a hypnotist I know how to induce deep meditative
states and to install mantras, mudras or other anchors as a means for
the client to re-enter these experiences on their own.
Some of the expansive processes available to the hypnotherapist such
as past life regression or meetings with "inner guides" or
"guardians" for example, have a more esoteric or spiritual
presentation, yet equally effective results can be achieved by the use
of more secular metaphors as well.
When we are invited to assist our clients in generative ways, we are
given the rare honor to participate actively in the process of human
evolution. The work involves the stimulation and encouragement
of the client's desire to expand … to become more. Not because
he needs to, but because he can.
One of the most basic generative practices takes the form of personal
and professional coaching, and the great success of the coaching
industry in the past decade is evidence of the public interest in this
kind of service.
As an instructor of hypnotherapy, and as a friend of the holistic and
"new age" communities. I'm often asked to provide
supportive services for new professionals as they establish their
practices or create their businesses.
Another generative application involves guided meditation or
structured processes that draw information out of the client.
This could involve hypnotic dream incubation or a walk through the
library of history or any compelling open-ended process that allows
the client's unconscious to fill in the blanks in a useful way.
Milton Erickson taught that the reason for most client difficulties is
that, on some level, they have lost rapport with their own unconscious
mind. Another way to say it is that they are in a state of
internal discord and that aspects of themselves are working against
one another. Bearing in mind that all aspects of self have
value, I especially like to use a process called "The Parts
Party". Based on the work of Virginia Satir and embellished
by numerous practitioners and trainers through the years, this process
invites a dialogue between different "parts". Some
parts that we especially like, some that we especially dislike, and
some that serve us well are brought together to gain a better
understanding and appreciation of one another so that they can develop
more harmonious and cooperative relationships - freedom from conflict
and peace within. These new relationships often result in
creative expression as a result of the new collaborative possibilities
they open up in the lives of our clients.
Erickson also said that hypnosis is a relationship and is a process of
communicating ideas. However, in some approaches, the frame is
"take these suggestions and ideas that I (the hypnotist) am
giving you and make them your own." Sadly, the
suggestions are often part of a script that is used for all clients
with a particular issue and don't reflect any personal understanding
or deep rapport, nor any individualized tailoring or true
interpersonal communication. In such approaches the client is
essentially told to "Go where I send you and do as I say."
In more generative applications the client is encouraged, guided by
her unconscious mind to "Go where you need to, and let me know
what happens as the process unfolds"
Our hypnosis training has equipped us to facilitate the hypnotic
process, while the client has the capacity to use whatever leadings
her inner self has to offer as she proceeds to makes progress within.
She knows far better than we do what would make that inner adventure
meaningful, and her unconscious mind knows even more than she does to
lead her through the greatest of transformational adventures.
Our clients resourcefulness is the single most valuable tool in our
work and it is the unconscious mind which many of us are trying to
muscle into compliance that needs to be given freedom of expression if
our work is to be generative.
I'm all for doing whatever works to get the client what he wants, and
the more traditional approaches can do that nicely up to a point.
They are quite effective for the many people we see who are searching
for remedial work with specific issues. These remedial protocols
can be the backbone of a highly successful practice of hypnotherapy
and save us from the need to re-invent the wheel with each new
session. But when we find a client who is trying to re-invent
himself it's time for us to create the space and the opportunity and
to support and encourage him to find his own way.
Rather than developing dependencies, the generative client knows that
she has not changed because of the power of some hypnotist who said
the magic words and without whom she couldn't have succeeded. But
because we've assisted her to establish a new and empowering
relationship with her own creative and resourceful self.